Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Last Day of March

 3/31/2021

Friends, today is the last day of March, and of course, you knew that already. Tomorrow is April Fool's Day. As an adult, playing a joke on somebody tomorrow, is no longer of interest to me.

Because, I will blog tomorrow about the history of April Fool's Day, I research what was special about March 31st.

First thing I found: In 1951the first commercially computer (UNIVAC) was sold to the U.S. Census Bureau for approximately $159,000. Tidy sum, particularly for 1951.

Today, is National Tater Day. Trust me. in my research, the word Tater was spelled this way. I, don't know about you, but I love potatoes. And, particularly french fries.

Today, is the 90th day of the year (91st in leap years) in the Gregorian calendar, and is the last day of the first quarter in a year. I know, this is pretty heavy stuff!!

The Eiffel Tower was opened to the public in 1889.

1932, the play Oklahoma made it's initial debuted 

1995, baseball players agreed to end a 232-day strike which had begun on August 12th, , 1994, after a judge granted a preliminary injunction against club owners. The strike led to the cancellation of 938 games overall, including the entire 1994 postseason and 1994 World Series. Not a very good time for baseball lovers!

And, last but not least, today is Al Gore's birthday.

I have now given you things you can talk about at your next gathering!

P




Tuesday, March 30, 2021

Dream Interrupted!

3/30/2021 

Ever have a dream. A dream that is so good, you hope you never wake up (from the dream). This morning, I was having one of those dreams.

Before the staff came in to give me my pills, I was dreaming that I was on a date with Tom Cruise!

But wait, it gets better. I also had a winning lottery ticket, and had just won $$28M dollars. And, unfortunately, I don't have either, and likely never will. A lottery card winning, only works, if you actually buy a ticket!!

But, a gal can still dream can't she? Most of the time, I can't even begin to tell you what, if anything, I was dreaming while asleep. So, this dream, is really special, and unlikely to repeat itself.

In Other News:

I went to a flower arrangement class. The activity director can and does have a variety of hands on things for us to do. For all of my years, flower arranging, was a vase with water, and flowers just plopped inside. Certainly, not creative, but somehow it always seemed to work. Let's clarify, good enough for yours truly.

Four of us ladies, made spring or Easter arrangements. Our flower filled vases will be put out in the lobby. Mine doesn't look too bad, but it's way below that standards of my daughters-in-laws. 

I believe that my only creative side of me is writing, and typing. When I was working in the law department at Marriott, sometimes a Union contract had to be retyped, for one reason or another. Other than myself, nobody in the department volunteered to do the job. Since it was always me, I was pretty much in heaven. I love to type. Since, it's just typing, I have been pounding on keys since 1968. 

For practice, sometimes, I just open up a book, and start typing what is written on a page or two. Love typing, or whatever it's called now. Unfortunately, my typing for work is finished. But, I still have my blog. The blog makes me very happy, particularly if I have thought of a subject that I want to share.

I'm a very busy lady today. Four activities! And, one of those activities, was chair exercising. It's only 30 minutes, but my body thinks 30 minutes is enough.

Dinner in my room today. One good thing about having a muddled brain, is that you can't remember what you wrote down on the menu yesterday. So every meal I receive, is a mystery to me.

Have to run. Next activity is Wheel of Fortune! I hope I win!!

P






Monday, March 29, 2021

Two Subjects - Can't Decide!

 3/29/2021

Friends, we're just a mere few days before April makes it's appearance. At this moment, I really have to check the weather everyday, to decide what I should wear. Long pants? Short pants? Sleeves", etc. 

The sun is shining brightly out my windows, but I think we're going to have weather in the 60's. But, then because Mother Nature, is so fickle, we'll have three days this week, with temperatures in the 40's. 

As I sit down this morning, I have two topics I could write about. And, believe me, these two topics, have absolutely nothing to do with each other!

Where I'm living now, there are low flush toilets. We don't have these at home, and hope we never will. My experience has been, so far, is that low flush toilets, aren't all their cracked up to be. You're supposed to save water, and that's a good idea. But, if you have to flush multiple times, then what's the point? TMI I know, but I now have a plunger in my bathroom. You get the idea. 

In our house, our appliances, with the exception of the new oven, are all mostly 32 years old. If you want a washing machine with the regular spinny thing inside, then you should buy this old kind now. Store it in the basement, if you have to. I don't even know if you can buy a regular toilet anymore, but if you can, put that in the basement as well. That's the end of that topic. Aren't you glad? 

Changing topics.

I have read a fiction, but loosely based on facts, a book about Charles Dickens. The book makes a big deal out of how handsome he was. While I can't seem to be able to give you guys a picture, but, in my humble opinion, I think he was downright ugly. And, yet, women swooned to be near him. Why? Probably, because he was well known and had money. These two qualifications from his time period, can be somewhat true for today. Who wouldn't like handsome and money? Everybody has a price!!

Here's what I know is true. Dickens lived from 1812 to 1870. He was 58 years old. His wife, Catherine, lived from 1836 until 1879. She was 64 years old. Catherine and Dickens were married for 22 years, until he became perhaps more enchanted with younger women. In the book, and it is perhaps fiction, Catherine didn't attend Dickens' funeral. The book intimates that Catherine, after her "divorce", became quite heavy and seldom left her home. 

In Dicken's lifetime, he wrote a weekly journal for 20 years, wrote 15 novels, 5 novellas, hundreds of short stories and articles. 

One of the woman, that Dicken fancied was Ellen Ternan, an actress. Upon his death, his will provided with Ternan 1,000 pounds. Today, that would be over $79 millon dollars. Tidy sum for it's time. Catherine received only 600 pounds, or 25 pounds today.

When Dickens died, his estate was worth an estimated 50 million pounds. Today, his worth would be 69 Billion dollars. He died a rich man. Unfortunately, at the time of his death, he left more money to Ternan, than his wife. 

Dickens had a very large ego, and thought of himself, as "the magical circle of one". 

The novel I read, was mostly based on fact, dates, marriages, that kind of thing. But, being a novel gives the writer free range to gather the facts, and then make them more interesting for the reader.

I tend to find a subject or topic, that sounds interesting to me, and then research the hell out of that subject. If, I could remember what I have written here today, I would be able to have a conversation about him, at a party. Of course, there are no parties, or few parties, now. My family and friends know that I'm reclusive, and have been more so, after I retired. In a large crowd, I try to find the smallest place in the room. And, yet, with friends or small gatherings, I can certainly hold my own. Sometimes people actually think I'm a funny person.

That's all the information, I have handy for today. My calendar today says "do more of what makes you happy". Nice thought to end my blog.

P









Friday, March 26, 2021

A Beautiful Day

 3/26/2021

I guess my blog now, is likely to be in the afternoon. There are some activities in the morning.

Just finished Bingo, ended up with 8 points. opted for only one candy, the rest were crackers of some sort or another. Sometimes, I just put my "winnings" at the nurses' station. I really don't need them in my room!!

I walked around the parking lot this afternoon, misjudged a curb. I thought, where I stopped  was one of those yellow markers for no curbs. Because, I'm not always batting a thousand when it comes to my brain, I almost fell down. That would be bad.

One activity was to paint wooden eggs. There are only 5 people allowed in an activity. I have zero, and believe me I'm not exaggerating. Some of the eggs came with little circles or squilly (however you spell it) things. I tried painting those little circles, and ended up with a mess. Trust me on this. My hands do shake, so staying within the lines, was mission impossible. But, then I had an idea. I painted my entire egg in gold, and I used clear nail polish to have the egg shiny. I think I'm seeing Benjamin next week, so I'll give the egg to him.

It was a beautiful day outside, and I and my royal "buggy" sat out in the sunshine, and it was wonderful.

I hope that you're weather is wonderful also. 

P





Wednesday, March 17, 2021

Hello Friends - Checking in

 

Subject: Checking In - Posted by JTB - helper here.

 

Hi everyone. Yes, it’s really me. I’ve missed “talking” daily, about anything and everything.

I stayed a week at Andrew’s house, and I was well cared for, as usual.  As a mother-in-law, I took on some chores, dishes, folding clothes, etc. Stuff like that.

By moving many hurdles, I am now in an apartment in an assisted living facility. I’ve only been here for 3 days, and I can already see that most residents, who are very old, seldom leave their apartments. I, however, went to the water coloring activity yesterday, and painted a, for my talent, quite nice picture. There is a woman who comes in I think twice a month, she does haircuts, toes and nails.

Stacey and Wendy worked hard to give me the most girly apartment, ever! It is pink and lavender, I even have some of my favorite pictures. While it isn’t home, and I didn’t think it would be, in the end, it’s simply just an apartment.

I have three windows in my room, but the view isn’t so great. My view is of houses’ back yards. And that would be okay, but, we’re talking about really messy yards. The kind of back yard that would not be acceptable at home.

While I was at Andrew’s house, Benjamin and I watched an episode of Hunger Games. Since I know absolutely nothing about the story line, I simply just watched. Benjamin, was trying so hard to help me understand, but that didn’t work out so well. Stacey, has bought me the first volume of Hunger Games. Pretty sure that I don’t think I’m going to enjoy the book. And, that’s okay, it will however, let me talk “intelligently” (ha) to Benjamin about the series. I’ll let you know how that goes, but probably this series won’t be my “cup of tea”!! The things that I will do for Benjamin!

Cutting this short for the day, my lunch has just arrived.

Have a great day wherever you are. I’ll talk to you again tomorrow.

 

P

 

Monday, March 8, 2021

Hello and Good-bye

 3/8/2021

It is possible that this blog, will have to take a recess, for now.

I'm moving to an assisted living facility. As I write, Stacey is helping me, or to be fair, has taken over all the things that need to be done.

My emotions are all over the place: anxious, scared and, to be truthful, want to vomit, pretty much all at the same time! Go figure. 

Since, I'm at the moment, at some kind of breaking point, Jeff has told me to just relax and everything will be handled. Okay, I know all that is true, but you know me .....!!! Like that is ever going to happen. For me, and perhaps forever, somebody will control my life. Not in a mean way, but because my brain is always in some kind of a muddle, I know I do need help. But, my ego, I guess you could call it that, has taken a beating.

Stacey came today, and helped me, big time. Some of my clothes are ready to be taken to Stacey's house. She packed up all of my little "bites" that I wanted to take, at the moment. 

Once, all of my furniture is in my apartment, then I'll need help to put everything in place. And, once that's done, I'll say good-bye, and then close my door. You know they say when a door closes, a window opens. And, that once I move in, the window will be open for me.

I have to keep this short, because Jeff and Stacey want to pack up my computer now. I don't know when I'll be on line, but please don't give up on me.

I thank all of you, for your support, and also reading my blogs.

I will write you all later.

O






Friday, March 5, 2021

Yesterday

 3/4/2021

With the exception of having to go to the dentist yesterday, I had a great day. The first part of the day was wonderful.

Wendy and Stacey, took me shopping at Target. If you're not paying attention, you can really rack up quite a larger total, than you expected! And, yes, if I'm being honest, that's what happened. So easy to do! Probably, because everything in the store was calling my name! Actually, it always does!

I need pretty much everything, for my new digs. And, it was more daunting than I thought it would be. I had a few tears while shopping, because the mission was daunting. Yesterday, I had an appointment with the dentist to put a temporary crown on my chipped tooth. He said I was looking better, and gave him a strange look. "was I here last week", and I had absolutely no recall of my being there.

I've even had to ask Stacey and Wendy, what we bought. How said is that. And, unfortunately, I think I've asked that question multiple times. Still I don't remember the answer! As sad as this move is going to be, I will be living in a protected environment, with activities and people. And, I need both now.

The only item to be put on a wall, first day, is the "I love you to the moon and back", wall hanging that Stacey made for me. When ever  Benjamin and I have to leave each other, that's one of the last things we say.

I did blog yesterday, but looks like I never sent it! All of you know that I have a mind like a steel trap!! Ha, if only that was the case.

At the moment, I am putting things in the living room that I intend to move to my apartment. Truth is, I feel like a new bride, who is getting presents!

Jeff wants initially, to concentrate on my "bedroom" and perhaps the kitchen and bathroom. And, then adding furniture, bit by bit.

The excitement I'm feeling, and the fears as well, are doing absolutely nothing for me. I don't much care for change, and I know there will be a period of adjustment, and probably a few tears, as well.

It's Friday, but you know that of course. It's on the chilly side here, but the sky is a brilliant blue.

Till next week.

P

 

 




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